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		<title>Hachiko: The World’s Most Loyal Dog</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dogs are known for being loyal companions &#8212; but we&#8217;ve never met any as faithful as Hachiko, an Akita from Japan who spent 10 years waiting for his master. By Kathryn Hawkins If you’ve ever seen the canceled-before-its-time (but now &#8230; <a href="http://masastevens.com/2010/11/09/2500/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dogs are known for being loyal companions &#8212; but we&#8217;ve never met any as faithful as Hachiko, an Akita from Japan who spent 10 years waiting for his master.</p>
<p>By Kathryn Hawkins</p>
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<p>If you’ve ever seen the canceled-before-its-time (but now revived!) show Futurama, you’ll probably remember Bender, the alcoholic robot; Leela, the beautiful one-eyed captain; and Philip J. Fry, the bumbling pizza delivery boy who was cryogenically frozen for a thousand years before joining the Planet Express intergalactic mail delivery team. But do you remember Fry’s loyal, loving dog, who waited for his master until the end of his life? If you didn’t think a cartoon character could make you cry, it might be time to reevaluate after you watch this heart-wrenching scene.</p>
<p>Now, of course, Fry’s dog never really existed (nor did the murderous Killbots, luckily), and you might scoff at the idea that any canine could really exercise such supreme loyalty. After all, your dog forgets that you’re alive whenever your sister stops by bearing bags of Pupperoni. And while it’s true that most animals are more loyal to their meals than to their masters, we know of an amazingly faithful dog that could be a real-life counterpart to Fry’s ever-loving pooch: Hachiko, an Akita from Tokyo.</p>
<p>Hachiko was brought to Tokyo in 1924 by his owner, a college professor named Hidesamuro Ueno. Each day, when Ueno left for work, Hachiko would stand by the door to watch him go. When the professor came home at 4 o’clock, Hachiko would go to the Shibuya Station to meet him.</p>
<p>Though this simple act alone shows a tremendous amount of loyalty, that’s not the end of it: The following year, Ueno died of a stroke while at the university. Hachiko didn’t realize that he was gone, and so the dog returned to the train station every single day to await his master. He became such a familiar presence there, in fact, that the station master set out food for the dog and gave him a bed in the station. Even so, Hachiko never shifted loyalties –every day at 4 o’clock, he hopefully waited by the tracks as the train pulled in, searching for his best friend’s face among the people getting off.</p>
<p>Hachiko’s love for his master impressed many people who passed through the station, including one of Ueno’s former students, who became fascinated by the Akita breed after seeing Hachiko. He discovered that there were only 30 Akitas living in Japan, and began to write articles about Hachiko and his remarkable breed, turning the world’s most loyal dog into a household name, and creating a resurgence in popularity for the Akita.</p>
<p>Hachiko died in 1935, after 10 long years of waiting for his master. But the dog would not be forgotten –a year before his death, Shibuya Station installed a bronze statue of the aging dog, to honor its mascot. Though the statue was melted down during World War II, a new version was created in 1948 by the son of the original artist. Go to the station now, and you’ll be able to see the bronze statue of Hachiko – still waiting, as ever, for his master to come home.</p>
<p><strong>Reference:</strong></p>
<p>http://gimundo.com/news/article/hachiko-the-worlds-most-loyal-dog/</p>
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		<title>Is it Good to Keep your Computer On all the Time?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[by Roscoe Nowadays, computers are fastly becoming man’s best friend. This powerful tool has already helped us make life easier. The computer makes it possible for us to store files, encode documents and even play games or watch videos. The &#8230; <a href="http://masastevens.com/2010/11/09/is-it-good-to-keep-your-computer-on-all-the-time/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p>Nowadays, computers are fastly becoming man’s best friend. This powerful tool has already helped us make life easier. The computer makes it possible for us to store files, encode documents and even play games or watch videos. The computer is also a means for us to connect to the Internet. This enables us to communicate with other people including those that are miles away as well as download music tunes and other videos. Without a doubt, the computer will always be a necessity.</p>
<p>Nevertheless, becoming a necessity would also mean that the computer will be frequently needed. This means that the computer will be used regularly. So is it good to keep your computer on all the time? Most computers, especially those that are made from good companies, can endure long uses. Some computers can even last more than a day of nonstop functioning. However, we should always try to utilize them in the most convenient way possible. This means that we can avoid using screen savers, which can consume a lot of power from the computer, or we can always turn off the monitor if we are not using it. Doing these simple ways can actually help prevent putting our computers at risk for any damages.</p>
<p>Even though some computers are able to withstand long hours of use, it is still advisable to give them time to rest. Computers are also machines, and just like any other machines, computers can also over heat or malfunction. This is the reason why computers work better if they are given time to shut down even only for a few hours. Doing this instead of leaving the computer on will not only prevent the computer from overheating, but it can also help us cut down the cost to our electricity bill.</p>
<p>These days, machines, such as the computers, are used not just for personal use but as well as for business purposes. Computers are very reliable since it can withstand more hours of working as to compare to a person. However, abusing this advantage of computers will not benefit us. This can cause us more spending for the repairs as well as other related problems.</p>
<p>In summary, if we were to be asked whether or not is it good to keep our computer on all the time, then we already know that it is not advisable to do so. Computers can indeed last long, but these things can also get damage, break down or get ruined.</p>
<p><strong>Reference:</strong></p>
<p>http://www.smellybrain.com/is-it-good-to-keep-your-computer-on-all-the-time/</p>
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		<title>Stress make women social and men antisocial</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[April 23, 2010 by Lin Edwards (PhysOrg.com) &#8212; New studies by scientists at the University of Southern California have found that while stress may result in a universal physiological &#8220;fight or flight response&#8221; there are gender differences in psychological and &#8230; <a href="http://masastevens.com/2010/10/18/stress-make-women-social-and-men-antisocial/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>April 23, 2010 by Lin Edwards</p>
<p>(PhysOrg.com) &#8212; New studies by scientists at the University of Southern California have found that while stress may result in a universal physiological &#8220;fight or flight response&#8221; there are gender differences in psychological and behavioral responses. The new findings suggest stress makes women more social and more aware of facial expressions, while it tends to make men less social.</p>
<p>The research led by psychologist Mara Mather, lends support to the theory proposed by Shelley Taylor, a neuroscientist from the University of California, Los Angeles, that women faced with stress “tend and befriend” by social networking and nurturing, probably as a way to protect their children, and that the fight or flight psychological and behavioral responses apply mainly to men.</p>
<p>In the experiments, Mather and her team split their male and female subjects into two groups. One group was put under stress by being asked to hold one hand in ice water for three minutes, which caused an elevation in the level of the stress hormone cortisol that lasted for about an hour. The other group held their hands in comfortably warm water, which does not elevate cortisol levels. The subjects were then shown pictures of neutral or angry faces while they were lying inside a brain scanner.</p>
<p>The results showed striking gender differences in the brain scans. The men with high cortisol levels showed less brain activity in the fusiform face area (FFA), an area of the brain involved in processing images of faces, than unstressed men did, while the stressed women’s brains were more active in that area than in unstressed women. There were similar differences in the regions of the brain concerned with understanding other people’s emotions and states of mind, and in feeling empathy towards others, with the stressed men showing reduced activity and a disconnection between the regions, and the stressed women showing an increased activity and greater connectivity.</p>
<p>Mather said women tend to seek out, befriend and bond with other people when they are under threat or stress, whereas men generally do not. She said the women&#8217;s enhanced abilities to gauge facial expressions and respond to them could partly underlie their tend and befriend reaction to stressful situations.</p>
<p>The group’s findings were presented at the 17th annual meeting of the Cognitive Neuroscience Society (CNS) held between 17 and 20 April 2010 in Montreal, Canada.</p>
<p>More information: Shelley E. Taylor&#8217;s lab page: http://taylorlab.p … du/index.htm</p>
<p>Reference:</p>
<p>http://www.physorg.com/news191223014.html</p>
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		<title>When Friends Hurt Each Other</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[By Muhammad Alshareef, LL.B Shari’ah In the name of Allah, the Compassionate, the Merciful Imam Malik one day entered the Masjid after Asr. Towards the front of Masjid An-Nabawee he drew closer and sat down. Rasulullah (saw) had commanded that &#8230; <a href="http://masastevens.com/2010/10/18/when-friends-hurt-each-other/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>By Muhammad Alshareef, LL.B Shari’ah</p>
<p>In the name of Allah, the Compassionate, the Merciful</p>
<p>Imam Malik one day entered the Masjid after Asr. Towards the front of Masjid An-Nabawee he drew closer and sat down. Rasulullah (saw) had commanded that anyone who enters the Masjid should not sit until he first prays 2 rakas as a salutation of the Masjid. Imam Malik was of the opinion however that Rasulullah’s (saw) forbiddance of praying after Asr took precedence and so he would teach his students to not pray the tahiyyatul Masjid if they entered between the Asr and Maghrib time.</p>
<p>At that moment that Imam Malik sat down, a young boy had seen him sit without first praying the 2 raka’s of Tahiyyatul Masjid. The young boy scorned him, “Get up and pray 2 rakas!”</p>
<p>Imam Malik dutifully stood up once again and began praying the 2 rakas. The students sat stunned: What was going on? Had Imam Malik’s opinion changed?</p>
<p>After he had completed the salah, the students swarmed around and questioned his actions. Imam Malik said, “My opinion has not changed, nor have I gone back on what I taught you earlier. I merely feared that had I not prayed the 2 rakas as the young boy commanded, Allah may include me in the Ayah…</p>
<p>[And when it is said to them, ‘Bow (in prayer)’, they do not bow.] &#8211; al mursalat 77/48.</p>
<p>Imam Ahmad held the opinion that eating camel meat nullifies ones Wudu, an opinion that the majority of scholars differed from. Some students asked him, “If you find an Imam eating camel meat in front of you and – without first making Wudu &#8211; then leads the Salah, would you pray behind him?” Imam Ahmad replied, “Do you think I would not pray behind the likes of Imam Malik and Sa’eed ibn Al-Musayyab?”</p>
<p>Allah created humans with differences. It is the law of creation. Different tongues, different colors, different cultures… all that on the outside. On the inside, humans were created with many degrees of knowledge, intellect, and comprehension of concepts. This is all a sign of Allah’s all encompassing power to do whatever He wills:</p>
<p>&#8220;And among His signs is the creation of the heavens and the earth, and the variations in your languages and your colors: verily in that are signs for those who know.&#8221; [30:22]</p>
<p>Humans shall differ, that is not the issue. The issue is: How as a Muslim should one confront these differences of opinions and what should be our relationship with someone of a different opinion.</p>
<p>Allah ta’ala commanded us to call and advise people in this Deen of Al-Islam. Many Muslims set off on this mission blindfolded, not realizing that the map was there in the Qur’an also. In fact, in the very same verse where Allah commanded us to call and advise people in this Deen, Allah taught us how to do it. Read the following verse carefully:</p>
<p>[Invite (fi’l Amr – Allah is commanding) to the way of your Lord with wisdom and good instruction and argue with them in a way that is best! ] – Surah An-Nahl 16/125.</p>
<p>There is no need to philosophize. No need to talk in the flower gardens. It is right there, plain and simple for anyone who would take heed.</p>
<p>There in that Ayah are the three ingredients to apply when we disagree with someone. The same Allah that taught us to debate the truth, taught us how to do it:</p>
<p>1. With Hikmah</p>
<p>2. With good instruction, and</p>
<p>3. To argue in a way that is best.</p>
<p>What does it mean to have Hikmah when differing with someone?</p>
<p>The nephews of Rasulullah (saw) once set one the most beautiful examples of Hikmah in advising others. Al-Hasan and Al-Husayn – in their young age &#8211; once saw a senior man performing Wudu incorrectly. Together they arranged a plan to teach the man without insulting him, advising him in a manner befitting of his age.</p>
<p>Together they went to the senior and announced, “My brother and I have differed over who amongst us performs Wudu the best. Would you mind being the judge to determine which one of us indeed performs Wudu more correctly.”</p>
<p>The man watched intently as the two grandsons of Rasulullah (saw) performed Wudu in an explicit manner. After they had completed, he thanked them and said, “By Allah, I did not know how to perform Wudu before this. You have both taught me how to do it correctly.”</p>
<p>We must understand that there are two dimensions to Hikmah. Firstly, there is the Hikmah of knowledge – Hikmah Ilmiyyah. And secondly, there is the Hikmah of Action – HikmahAmaliyyah.</p>
<p>Some people may have Hikmah of knowledge. But we see that when they try correcting others, advising them, they lack the Hikmah of Action. This causes many a common folk to reject the Hikmah of knowledge.</p>
<p>To illustrate this hikmah of knowledge without Hikmah of action, a brother once completed the Salah in a local Masjid and then proceeded to shake hands with the people on his right and left. The brother to his immediate right slapped his hand and snapped, “That is not part of the Sunnah!” The man replied most correctly, “Oh, is disrespect and insult part of the Sunnah?”</p>
<p>To show Hikmah when we differ requires the following:</p>
<p>Sincerity</p>
<p>One: If we differ, our intentions should be that we are differing in the sincere hope of coming away with the truth. Our intentions should be sincere to Allah.</p>
<p>We should not differ just to release some hate or envy in our heart. We should not differ to embarrass someone like we may have been embarrassed.</p>
<p>Rasulullah (saw) said, “Whoever learns knowledge – knowledge from that which should be sought for the sake of Allah – only to receive a commodity of the material world, he shall not find the fragrance of jannah on the day of resurrection.”</p>
<p>- An authentic hadith narrated by Abu Dawood in Kitab Al- Ilm.</p>
<p>Kindness and Gentleness</p>
<p>Two: To have Hikmah when differing means we should rarely depart from an atmosphere of kindness and gentleness, we should seldom allow ourselves to become angry and raise our voices.</p>
<p>Fir’own was one of the evilest people that lived. Musa was one of the noblest. Look at how Allah told Musa to advise Fir’own…</p>
<p>[Go, both of you, to Fir’own. Indeed, he has transgressed. And speak to him with gentle speech, perhaps he may remember or fear (Allah).]</p>
<p>A man once entered upon the Khalifah and chastised him for some policies he had taken. The Khalifah replied, “By Allah, Fir’own was more eviler than me. And by Allah, Musa was more pious than you. Yet, Allah commanded him…[And speak to him with gentle speech, perhaps he may remember or fear (Allah).]</p>
<p>Take Your Time and Clarify</p>
<p>Three: To have Hikmah when dealing with others is to be patient and clarify things before snapping to conclusions.</p>
<p>Imam Ahmad narrates with his chain of narrators leading to Ibn Abbas who said, “A man from Bani Saleem passed by a group of the Prophet’s companions. (At that time of war) The man said ‘as salamu alaykum’ to them. The companions concluded that he only said ‘as salamu alaykum’ to them as a deception to save himself from being caught. They surrounded him and Malham ibn Juthaamah killed him. From that event Allah revealed the verse…</p>
<p>[O you who have believed, when you go forth (to fight) in the cause of Allah, investigate, and do not say to one who gives you (a greeting of peace), “You are not a believer,” Aspiring for the goods of worldly life; for with Allah are many acquisitions. You (yourselves) were like that before; then Allah conferred His favor (i.e. guidance) upon you, so investigate. Indeed, Allah is ever with what you do, acquainted.]</p>
<p>- Surah AnNisa, 4/94. From Tafseer Ibn Katheer.</p>
<p>Speak Kindly</p>
<p>Fourthly, never trade in kind words for harshness, especially when dealing with other Muslims.</p>
<p>Look at the power of a sincere and polite word:</p>
<p>Mus’ab ibn Umayr was the first of ambassador of Rasulullah (saw) in Madinah. Before Rasulullah (saw) had arrived in Madinah, Mus’ab taught ahl al-Madinah about Islam and they began to enter the Deen.</p>
<p>This enraged Sa’d ibn ‘Ubaadah, one of the chieftains of Madinah. He sheathed his sword and set off for the head of Mus’ab ibn ‘Umayr. When he confronted Mus’ab he threatened, “Stop this nonsense you speak or you shall find yourself dead!”</p>
<p>Mus’ab replied in the way that should be a lesson for us all. This man before him did not stop at rudeness and ignorance, he wanted to slit his throat.</p>
<p>Mus’ab said, “Shall you not sit and listen for a few moments. If you agree with what I say then take it, and if not, we shall desist from this talk.” Sa’d sat down.</p>
<p>Mus’ab spoke about Allah and His messenger until the face of Sa’d ibn Ubaadah’s face shone like a full moon and he said, “What should a person do who wishes to enter into this Deen?” After Mus’ab had told him he said, “There is a man, if he accepts this Deen, there shall be no home in Madinah that will not become Muslim. Sa’d ibn Mu’aadh.”</p>
<p>When Sa’d ibn Mu’aadh heard what was happening, he was infuriated. He left his home to go and kill this man called Mus’ab ibn Umayr for the dissention he had caused. He entered upon Mus’ab and announced, “You shall desist of this religion you speak of or you shall find yourself dead!”</p>
<p>Mus’ab replied, “Shall you not sit and listen for a few moments. If you agree with what I say then take it, and if not, I shall desist from this talk.” Sa’d sat.</p>
<p>Mus’ab spoke about Allah and His messenger until the face of Sa’d ibn Mu’aadh’s face shone like a full moon and he said, “What should a person do who wishes to enter into this Deen?”</p>
<p>Look at what a kind word did. Sa’d ibn Mu’aadh went home to his Madinan tribe that night and announced to them all, “Everything of yours is Haram upon me until you all enter into Islam.”</p>
<p>That night, every home in Madinah went to bed with Laa ilaaha illa Allah … all because of a kind word.</p>
<p>Part II: Who wins?</p>
<p>Mu’aawiyah ibn al-Hakam al-Salami. When he came to Madeenah from the desert, he did not know that it was forbidden to speak during the salaah. He relates: “Whilst I was praying behind the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), a man sneezed, so I said ‘Yarhamuk Allaah (may Allaah have mercy on you).’ The people glared at me, so I said, ‘May my mother lose me! What is wrong with you that you are looking at me?’ They began to slap their thighs with their hands, and when I saw that they were indicating that I should be quiet, I stopped talking (i.e., I nearly wanted to answer them back, but I controlled myself and kept quiet).</p>
<p>When the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) had finished praying – may my father and mother be sacrificed for him, I have never seen a better teacher than him before or since – he did not scold me or hit me or put me to shame. He just said, ‘This prayer should contain nothing of the speech of men; it is only tasbeeh and takbeer and recitation of the Qur’aan.’” (Saheeh Muslim, ‘Abd al-Baaqi edn., no. 537).</p>
<p>Islam showed us how to differ with one another. Some people think that we should never differ at all and all disagreements should be avoided. Nay, this is an incorrect assumption, for the Qur’an and Sunnah show clearly that when a mistake is made it should be corrected. Indeed helping others do what is right is a requirement of the Deen, sincere Naseeha.</p>
<p>We see when Rasulullah (saw) turned away from AbdAllah ibn Umm Maktoom, the blind man, Allah corrected him in the Qur’an…</p>
<p>[The Prophet) frowned and turned away, Because there came to him the blind man But what could tell you that perchance he might become pure (from sins)? Or that he might receive admonition, and that the admonition might profit him?] – surah Abasa, 1-4</p>
<p>When Haatib ibn Abi Balta’ah (may Allaah be pleased with him) made the mistake of writing to the kuffaar of Quraysh and informing them of the direction in which the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) was headed on a military campaign against them, Allaah revealed the words:</p>
<p>[O you who believe! Take not My enemies and your enemies as friends…] &#8211; Surah Mumtahinah/1</p>
<p>And so on. Thus we learn that when a mistake happens it should be corrected. However, the method of correction is what needs our attention.</p>
<p>Whenever Muslims argue, it is as if each party carries a banner of: ‘I must win and you must lose!’ Careful study of the Sunnah however shows us that this is not always the case with the way Rasulullah (saw) acted. Consider the following examples:</p>
<p>“I lose and you win!”</p>
<p>A Bedouin came to Rasulullah (saw) and told him, “Give me from what Allah gave you, not from the wealth of your mother nor from the wealth of your father.” The Sahaabah were furious at the man and step forward to discipline him for what he said. Rasulullah (saw) commanded everyone to leave him.</p>
<p>Then by the hand, Rasulullah (saw) took him home, opened his door and said, “Take what you wish and leave what you wish.” The man did so and after he completed, Rasulullah (saw) asked him, “Have I honored you?” “Yes, by Allah,” said the Bedouin. “Ash hadu an laa ilaaha illa Allah, wa ashhadu anna Muhammadar Rasulullah.”</p>
<p>When the Sahabah heard of how the man changed, Rasulullah (saw) taught them. “Verily the example of myself, you and this Bedouin is that of a man who had his camel run away. The townspeople tried capturing the camel for him by running and shouting after the camel, only driving it further away. The man would shout, ‘Leave me and my camel, I know my camel better.’ Then he took some grass in his hand, ruffled it in front of the camel, until it came willingly.</p>
<p>‘By Allah, had I left you to this Bedouin, you would have hit him, hurt him, he would have left without Islam and eventually have entered hellfire.”</p>
<p>“I win and you lose!”</p>
<p>A Muslim should not have an apologetic stance to everything he is confronted with. There are times when the truth must be said, when there is no room for flattery.</p>
<p>When the Makhzoomi women – a women from an affluent family – stole, people approached Rasulullah (saw) to have her punishment canceled. Rasulullah (saw) became very angry and stood on the pulpit and announced, “By Allah, had Fatima the daughter of Muhammad stole I would have cut her hand off.”</p>
<p>No room for flattery, the truth must be stood up for. It is here that the etiquette of disagreement that we talked earlier about should shine.</p>
<p>“I win and you win!”</p>
<p>There doesn’t always have to be a loser. We see in many cases that Rasulullah (saw) gave a way out for the people he differed with.</p>
<p>When he sent the letter to Caesar, he said in it, “Become Muslim and you shall be safe, Allah shall give you your reward double!”</p>
<p>He did not say surrender or die! Nothing of the sort. Become Muslim and you shall win, rather your victory shall be double.</p>
<p>I shall end with this shining example of how to act with other Muslims from our role model, Abu Bakr:</p>
<p>Abu Bakr once disputed with another companion about a tree. During the dispute Abu Bakr said something that he rather would not have said. He did not curse, he did not attack someone’s honor, he did not poke a fault in anyone, all he said was something that may have hurt the other companion’s feelings.</p>
<p>Immediately, Abu Bakr – understanding the mistake &#8211; ordered him, “Say it back to me!” The companion said, “I shall not say it back.” “Say it back to me,” said Abu Bakr, “Or I shall complain to the Messenger of Allah.” The companion refused to say it back and went on his way.</p>
<p>Abu Bakr went to Rasulullah (saw) and related what had happened and what he said. Rasulullah (saw) called that companion and asked him, “Did Abu Bakr say so and so to you?” He said, “Yes.” He said, “What did you reply.” He said, “I did not reply it back to him.” Rasulullah (saw) said, “Good, do not reply it back to him (do not hurt Abu Bakr). Rather say, ‘May Allah forgive you O Abu Bakr!’”</p>
<p>The Companion turned to Abu Bakr and said, “May Allah forgive you O Abu Bakr! May Allah forgive you O Abu Bakr!” Abu Bakr turned and cried as he walked away.</p>
<p>Let us leave today with a resolve to revive this air Rasulullah (saw) and his companions breathed, an air of mercy and love and brotherhood.</p>
<p>And Allah knows best.</p>
<p>Contributor: http://www.el-haqq.com/</p>
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<p>http://www.muslimaccess.com/articles/brotherhood/friends_hurt_other.asp</p>
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		<title>Computer users! Know about CARPAL TUNNEL SYNDROME</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Oct 2010 00:13:28 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For everyone who works daily on a computer. The mistakes daily mouse and keyboard usage will result in Carpal Tunnel Syndrome! Use the mouse and keyboard correctly. View below for the surgery of a patient suffering from Carpal Tunnel Syndrome followed by the  RIGHT TECHNIQUES for usage&#8230;.</p>
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<p>Correct way to work on the Computer</p>
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<p style="text-align: left;">Hand Exercises for Carpal Tunnel Syndrome :</p>
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		<title>The New Illness &#8211; Men Depression</title>
		<link>http://masastevens.com/2010/10/03/the-new-illness-men-depression/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Oct 2010 03:36:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[By : kikaru kung One amongst the problems with men with depression is that several men are still not comfy talking about what&#8217;s bothering them. Often men can provide enough emotion to reveal something is wrong but getting men to &#8230; <a href="http://masastevens.com/2010/10/03/the-new-illness-men-depression/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p>One amongst the problems with men with depression is that several men are still not comfy talking about what&#8217;s bothering them. Often men can provide enough emotion to reveal something is wrong but getting men to go deeper emotionally is important to urge to the basis of the problem. Why do men stop short emotionally, it seems that image continues to be an necessary issue regarding men and depression. To open up an excessive amount of is to risk trying weak and usually female, men depressed are balancing opening up simply enough while not looking weak.</p>
<p>We tend to will blame societies labels for a number of these problems. In his movies actor James Dean typically played the angry withdrawn male who could not express what was wrong, men loved it and girl loved it. This image of men keeping all emotion at intervals them was really seen as being a true man. Young men saw James Dean as robust, silent and distant, these days he might be diagnosed with men depression. The problem for many men can still be the their image, how to urge beyond a twin of what it means that to be a man.</p>
<p>The issue of men depression is often misdiagnosed as well. Men depression is often given names like mood swings, cranky, mean or perhaps the sturdy silent type. A distinctive aspect to the problem of men depression is the read of those who treat the illness. Although doctors are awakening to the growing range of men depressed the illness remains typically mislabeled. Men are more probably to be labeled angry. Men are sent to anger management categories faster than women, girls are quicker to be diagnosis depressed. Anger management is something that a man is quicker to simply accept, this is because anger still has the connotation of being seen as macho or terribly masculine. Even doctors are fast to recommend an anger class to men instead of therapy for depression. The loss of control is one among the hardest symptoms of depression that men depressed have to deal with. It is often tough for a man to admit that he cannot management his emotions.</p>
<p>Typical male responses to a drawback is to fight back however in the case of depression this is often a losing battle. Depression is an inner battle that must be addressed internally. Depression will cause anger however to deal with the anger first is not getting to the root of the problem. The anger is the symptom of the depression in men depressed.</p>
<p>Studies show that spirituality is one amongst the simplest ways that to house depression. The non secular person will suffer from depression however is usually less depressed and is a lot of open to addressing unhappy feelings. The spiritual man usually seeks the assistance faster than the non-non secular man. To hunt a solution beyond you is one among the most troublesome obstacles for men.</p>
<p>In society men are taught to travel hunt the problem, realize it, then shoot it down like a real man. Spirituality takes a totally different approach; it is based mostly on the requirement of a helping power on top of self. Religious facilitate is a calling out for help that&#8217;s not based mostly on wanting weak or strong however of seeking love.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Source</span></p>
<p><a href="http://short-articles.com/Art/81328/302/The-New-Illness-Men-Depression.html">http://short-articles.com/Art/81328/302/The-New-Illness-Men-Depression.html</a></p>
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		<title>The Last Ten Nights &amp; Specifying the Signs that it is Laylatul Qadr</title>
		<link>http://masastevens.com/2010/09/06/the-last-ten-nights-specifying-the-signs-that-it-is-laylatul-qadr/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Sep 2010 17:19:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Salam and hello,

Very short, but very beneficial articles here. Please read further. <a href="http://masastevens.com/2010/09/06/the-last-ten-nights-specifying-the-signs-that-it-is-laylatul-qadr/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p>Very short, but very beneficial articles here. Please read further.</p>
<p>1. How to spend the last ten nights of Ramadaan.&lt;<a href="http://knowledgeisdeen.wordpress.com/2010/08/28/how-to-spend-the-last-10-nights-in-ramadaan-by-shaykh-saalih-al-luhaydaan/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>http://knowledgeisdeen.wordpress.com/2010/08/28/how-to-spend-the-last-10-nights-in-ramadaan-by-shaykh-saalih-al-luhaydaan/</strong></span></a>&gt;</p>
<p>2. The virtues of Laylatul Qadr.&lt;<a href="http://knowledgeisdeen.wordpress.com/2010/08/28/the-virtue-of-lailatul-qadr-night-of-al-qadr/"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">http://knowledgeisdeen.wordpress.com/2010/08/28/the-virtue-of-lailatul-qadr-night-of-al-qadr/</span></strong></a>&gt;</p>
<p>3. The signs that it is Laylatul Qadr.&lt;<a href="http://knowledgeisdeen.wordpress.com/2010/08/28/specifying-lailatul-qadr-the-night-of-decree-and-its-signs/"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">http://knowledgeisdeen.wordpress.com/2010/08/28/specifying-lailatul-qadr-the-night-of-decree-and-its-signs/</span></strong></a>&gt;</p>
<p>4. Du&#8217;a for Laylatul Qadr.&lt;<a href="http://knowledgeisdeen.wordpress.com/2010/08/28/dua-supplication-for-lailatul-qadr-the-night-of-decree/"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">http://knowledgeisdeen.wordpress.com/2010/08/28/dua-supplication-for-lailatul-qadr-the-night-of-decree/</span></strong></a>&gt;</p>
<p>5. Additional article: The ruling regarding Zikaatul Fitr.&lt;<a href="http://knowledgeisdeen.wordpress.com/2010/08/29/zakaatul-fitr-fitraana/"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">http://knowledgeisdeen.wordpress.com/2010/08/29/zakaatul-fitr-fitraana/</span></strong></a>&gt;</p>
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		<title>The Nostalgia of the Ice Cream Machine</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Sep 2010 17:10:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Over 30 years ago, kids all over would wait excitedly for Sunday to arrive. That was the day that dads everywhere would bring out the ice cream machine. They would spend a little bit packing the outside of the central &#8230; <a href="http://masastevens.com/2010/09/06/the-nostalgia-of-the-ice-cream-machine/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Over 30 years ago, kids all over would wait excitedly for Sunday to arrive. That was the day that dads everywhere would bring out the ice cream machine. They would spend a little bit packing the outside of the central container with ice and rock salt. Then they would put the milk and other ingredients into the mixing chamber, seal it up, and begin the weekly ritual. With no electric parts, the ice cream maker could sit anywhere in the house, even out in the back yard on the picnic table. About once an hour, someone got to turn the handle by hand in order to churn the ingredients, ensuring a good strong mixture. After a total of anywhere from 3 to 5 hours, ice cream was ready.</p>
<p>Today, the process for home made ice cream is much simpler and quicker. Some of the less expensive models still require you to pre-freeze the ice packs in order to keep the mixer cool, however a common practice is to just keep the packs in the freezer so they are always ready. Some machines have an entire gel lining while others have quick freezing capabilities. There is no more need to churn the ice cream by hand, the new electric ice cream freezers come complete with automatically turning paddles to ensure the ingredients are mixed well and kept creamy. Perhaps the best feature of modern machines is that the ice cream is made and ready to eat in as little as 20 to 30 minutes.</p>
<p>The good old days of the family gathering around the ice cream maker, waiting in anticipation for the hours it took for ice cream to be done may be gone, but the act of making ice cream by hand is still here. While the process may be quicker and easier, the fun is still there. Ultimately, it doesn&#8217;t matter if it is made by turning a crank by hand all day, or plugging in the cord for a few minutes, hand made ice cream is still one of the best treats there is!</p>
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		<title>When you See what you feel with a new eye</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 27 May 2010 06:57:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It has been ages since we posted the last article. We are sorry for that. Since we are currently in summer, there is nothing much to tell here. Be it an event or a story. However, we will try to do our best. Here is an article for you to read. =D <a href="http://masastevens.com/2010/05/27/when-you-see-what-you-feel-with-a-new-eye/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The train has started moving. It is packed with people of all ages, mostly with the working men and women and young college guys and gals. Near the window, seated a old man with his 30 year old son. As the train moves by, the son is overwhelmed with joy as he was thrilled with the scenery outside..</p>
<p>&#8221; See dad, the scenery of green trees moving away is very beautiful&#8221;</p>
<p>This behavior from a thirty year old son made the other people feel strange about him. Every one started murmuring something or other about this son.&#8221;This guy seems to be a krack..&#8221; newly married Anup whispered to his wife.</p>
<p>Suddenly it started raining&#8230; Rain drops fell on the travelers through the opened window. The Thirty year old son , filled with joy &#8221; see dad, how beautiful the rain is ..&#8221;</p>
<p>Anup&#8217;s wife got irritated with the rain drops spoiling her new suit.</p>
<p>Anup ,&#8221; cant you see its raining, you old man, if your son is not feeling well get him soon to a mental asylum..and don&#8217;t disturb public henceforth&#8221;</p>
<p>The old man hesitated first and then in a low tone replied &#8221; we are on the way back from hospital, my son got discharged today morning , he was a blind by birth, last week only he got his vision, these rain and nature are new to his eyes.. Please forgive us for the inconvenience caused&#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p>The things we see may be right from our perspective until we know the truth. But when we know the truth our reaction to that will hurt even us. So try to understand the problem better before taking a harsh action.</p>
<p>&#8221; Happiness is not something you find, it&#8217;s something you create…&#8221;<br />
&#8216;Life Is Too Short To Waste Time Hating Anyone&#8217;</p>
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<p>http://storiesthattouch.blogspot.com/2010/01/when-you-see-what-you-feel-with-new-eye.html</p>
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		<title>A World of Smile =)</title>
		<link>http://masastevens.com/2010/04/19/a-world-of-smile/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Apr 2010 21:21:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It has been quiet lately. Nothing big happens and no big events after our last Unity Show performances. Now we are waiting for our next and last MASA event of the semester, Graduation Night. But before that, here is a story to read. =) <a href="http://masastevens.com/2010/04/19/a-world-of-smile/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>About ten years ago when I was an undergraduate in college, I was working as an intern at my University&#8217;s Museum of Natural History. One day while working at the cash register in the gift shop, I saw an elderly couple come in with a little girl in a wheelchair.</p>
<p>As I looked closer at this girl, I saw that she was kind of perched on her chair. I then realized she had no arms or legs, just a head, neck and torso. She was wearing a little white dress with red polka dots.</p>
<p>As the couple wheeled her up to me I was looking down at the register. I turned my head toward the girl and gave her a wink. As I took the money from her grandparents, I looked back at the girl, who was giving me the cutest, largest smile I have ever seen. All of a sudden her handicap was gone and all I saw was this beautiful girl, whose smile just melted me and almost instantly gave me a completely new sense of what life is all about. She took me from a poor, unhappy college student and brought me into her world; a world of smiles, love and warmth.</p>
<p>That was ten years ago. I&#8217;m a successful business person now and whenever I get down and think about the troubles of the world, I think about that little girl and the remarkable lesson about life that she taught me.</p>
<p>Source: Submitted by a Writer of AL-Islaah Publications.</p>
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